There’s a petition being passed around from Women Count asking Obama to create a Presidential Commission on Women. Reactions are mixed, however, judging by this comment thread on No Quarter. A comment from mimi really struck me:
A lot of women sold their souls to 0bama not only in the face of misogyny coming from men, WOMEN PARTICIPATED IN IT!
Look, I don’t want to be overbearing about this, but it’s time to let go that ‘don’t blame the victim’ consciousness. Everything isn’t a man’s fault. This was the failure of the Movement, looking to ascribe everything to the patriarchy. Women have some serious self-analysis to do. I’d like to hear from women who saw no misogyny. I’d like to hear what they’re seeing that I’m not.
There were no victims this election cycle. Women didn’t sleep with the enemy, they were the enemy.
This is why I don’t want to petition anything from 0bama. Let’s see what he does. It’s a tough love moment now.
But if we want action, there are other ways to direct our energy and I think putting pressure on the industry who helps form some of the pervasively negative anti-women attitudes is a better start.
I agree, mimi. I don’t feel that a petition to Obama will do any good. So what if he creates a “commission on women”? What on earth is that going to solve? The problem can’t be dictated down from above - we’ve already seen the tremendous failure of most major feminist organizations during this election. It was NOW, NARAL, Emily’s List, and the Feminist Majority who sold us down the river, ostensibly over the “choice” issue, but apparently also because George Soros gave them a lot of money.
We need a new women’s movement, one that does not let the issue of abortion divide women.
I am reminded of how, during this election, an Obama voting female friend of mine complained that her 2-year-old daughter was obsessed with Barbie even though she did not let the child watch television and she was not bringing female-brainwashing toys into the house. Yet, this same mostly intelligent woman did not connect the brainwashing of her little girl with the sexism and misogyny against Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin.
I am also reminded of a late 40-something white woman in a singing class of mine, who one week decided to dedicate her song to Obama. She literally sang and danced around the room clutching a picture of Obama to her chest, singing to him as if he were a lover. It was clear that her adulation of Obama was something akin to how some women get obsessed with George Clooney. It was sickening and disturbing.
Women did not support Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin for a number of reasons, but the first and foremost is that they do not understand that our lack of parity in government affects the respect all women get in our daily lives. And of course, the lack of respect women get in our daily lives is reflected by our lack of parity in government.
When you see crapola on TV like “Charm School,” showcasing the most inane, vain, and stupid women, you have to wonder if we’re not just standing still in terms of women’s progress, but actually moving backwards. (Can you believe that one of the episodes is actually formally titled: “Big Titty Girl No-No”?)
Our culture is degenerating into an insipid dumbocracy that rewards stupidity and shallowness. The film “Idiocracy” is actually a pretty good take on where we’re going if we don’t shape up here in America. In the dystopian future envisioned in Idiocracy, even Starbucks has turned into a strip club. That pretty much says it all.
The PUMAs need to reformulate into a new movement. Some PUMAs may choose to focus on putting pressure on the Democratic party to put an end to unfair caucuses. I have chosen to completely leave the Democratic party and no longer give them my loyalty or attention. Here on this blog, I will do my little part to help start a new women’s movement that is based on garnering respect for women, without letting abortion divide us.
Maybe we can do things differently in 2012.